Spiritual Direction

Living in Grace ~ A Spiritual Direction and Retreat Ministry

Whoever you are, and wherever you find yourself on the journey of faith, know that you are most welcome here, to receive the riches of God’s love given for you.

from St. John’s Staff

Where are you on the journey of faith? Are you in a time of discernment? 

Does the well feel dry?  Do you hunger for a relationship with God?  Then perhaps spiritual direction is for you.  Spiritual directors, or spiritual companions, provide directees with a safe place to seek, discern, and acknowledge the Holy, present and at work in their lives.  It is what Dale calls “an hour of pure grace.”

I think my job is to make the grace of an invisible God, visible, wherever I am.


Pastor Dale Selover is the director of Living in Grace.  Dale received her training as a spiritual director through Oasis Ministries for Spiritual Development, where she now serves as an instructor and as the chairperson for Oasis’ Board of Directors.

For twenty years Dale has served as a retreat leader for congregational women’s groups, councils, families, and Christian Education teams.  Dale offers day and weekend retreats on a variety of topics, but will also create a retreat based on your group or congregation’s specific needs.

Pastor Selover is an ordained minister in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America.

For more information, you are welcome to email hnd@popnj.org or call 908-797-7336.

You belong to God, and it is as a child of God that you are sent into the world.

You need spiritual guidance; you need people who can keep you anchored in your true identity.  The temptation to disconnect from that deep place in you where God dwells and to let yourself be drowned in the praise or the blame of the world always remains…

The more you come to know yourself – spirit, mind, and body – as truly loved, the freer you will be to proclaim the good news. That is the freedom of the children of God.

Henri Nouwen, The Inner Voice of Love